Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Extreme - ukuhlolwa kwe-inkampani
Kuyinto imfihlo ukuthi abantu abathanda ukudala definition, hhayi kuphela izinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa futhi izinto abstract kakhulu futhi esikhashana ezikhona kuphela emhlabeni ongokomfanekiso. Kulo post sizoxoxa ngalokho kakhulu. Lena enye yezimfanelo esivela cishe wonke umuntu. Ngeke uthinte noma ukukala, kuba subjective kakhulu, kanye nokuhlola isihlobo yokuziphatha. Kungani thina kanjalo ngokomthetho ukuthi bangase beqise, onquma lokho kuyinto kakhulu kanye nemiphumela yokuziphatha sisonqenqemeni? Sixoxa isihloko kule post.
Kuyini kakhulu?
Kuyinto imfihlo ukuthi abantu ahlelwe ngempela eyinqaba. Bayingcosana kithi kuyahluka ukuziphatha ezolile futhi uhambisane kanye nombono nokukhanya kokuphila, nokuvuleka entsha futhi engaziwa. Siphinde akulula maqondana kokubili yena futhi kwabanye abantu.
The Inkampani yethu ithole isikhathi eside ekusithekeni, kukhona yansuku zonke. Nokho, kungani ekusithekeni? Thatha noma iyiphi inkolo - kuyadingeka ukwethula imiyalo, enikeza kulungiselelwa ukuthi ilungile. Ukwephulwa kwale mithetho futhi kubhekwa ukuphambuka kusuka kuyinsakavukela. Ukuziba eminye yemithetho kuyinto yisigwebo umthetho, ezifana ukweba noma ukubulala. Ukwephula nezinye nje akuyona wamukelekile, futhi uyakulahla umphakathi ibizwa ngokuthi "ukweqisa."
izibonelo ukweqisa
Ngokwesibonelo, kukholelwa ukuthi isidingo ukusebenza izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto. Umuntu idlula "kuyinsakavukela", kuzoxoxwa Bani ezibulala ngomsebenzi, futhi ubani akusebenzi ngaso sonke - silwanyana.
Ezweni Orthodox kuyinto evamile ukuba umkhaya, lokushada nowesifazane - ukushada. Uma umuntu engafuni ukulandela le "uhlelo", uphila ukuphila okuxekethile futhi has a lot of abalingani, kungase asolwe ekuzitikeni ngokweqile. Labo ungafuni ukuba babe nobuhlobo nabobulili obuhlukile, kuzoxoxwa njengoba kwamaPuritan.
Imali kufanele ngokwanele ukuze ngesankahlu kwi "isinkwa nebhotela" - indawo, imoto futhi buyiselo imalimboleko. Uma umuntu enqaba ngayo izinto ezibonakalayo, akusiyo evamile. Njengoba nje kubhekwe normal ukuphishekela okungalawuleki imali.
Izingane kufanele kube ezimbili noma ezintathu. Ukulaxazwa izingane, manje eside imfashini "childfree" - ingenye kakhulu, futhi babelokhu benesifiso sokuba umkhaya omkhulu - omunye.
Ngakho-ke, ngokwedlulele - lokho kuyinto kubhekwa okungalungile, kakhulu umphakathi. Yilokho. Futhi wacabanga?
Kangakanani ukuphila kulabo "uya ukweqisa?"
Kufanele siphile ngendlela ukunethezeka, nokuthi lokho akusho ubuhlungu abanye. Zokulandela nemfundiso yenkolo, umphakathi akhohlwe lo mthetho letilula anikete abantu abaningi nenkululeko yokuzikhethela. "Umuntu ukweqisa" kungenziwa wasola futhi fela for isifiso esingokwemvelo ngokuphelele kuye. Awunayo awela ngokwedlulele, uma enikeziwe induduzo thina abanye. I akhuza umphakathi labo azange iphule imithetho - ngokwedlulele. Lona emaqinisweni okuphila emphakathini.
Kanjani ukuze siphile kahle?
Akekho noyedwa, ngisho nabazali bakho, isigamu zasemshadweni, abapristi abakhulu, abakwazi ukukutshela ngokuphila okuhle.
Zonke subjective kakhulu futhi luyehluka kuye umuntu, baphuma ezinkolweni ezihlukahlukene. Extreme futhi awavamile ukuba okuthile okuhlukile emazweni ahlukahlukene, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ngaphakathi mgwaqo efanayo.
Ngoba wena ngokwakho abayithandi ngezinye izikhathi, akunjalo? Uma udla kakhulu noma akudle ngenxa yokudla? Noma uma, isibonelo, ukuchitha yonke imali bethenga?
Abantu ngakho kwakhiwa ukuthi baqaphele uma obunqoba kuyinsakavukela - futhi lokhu isilinganiso kufanele awakhonzi umbono womphakathi, futhi umqondo sangaphakathi ngokuthula nangokuzwana uqobo. Norm - lokhu nenhliziyo ezolile, isimo somphefumulo, ayizisoli ngezenzo. Imvelo kanye laphezulu (ubani eyayingemva kwaso) wasinikeza barometer lesifanele. Lalela izwi lakho kwangaphakathi, hhayi umakhelwane, futhi uzoba ukwenza okulungile.
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