Bewazi yini ukuthi Umfowabo womyeni wami - umzalwane umukhwe wakho?

Yonke imikhaya Russian isebenzisa ekuphileni kwansuku zonke nje izincazelo ezimbalwa kusukela eziyinkimbinkimbi, begxilile ezijulile emakhulwini eminyaka okungabi nokuzwelana amagama. Ngaphambi nje kokuba ama -February Revolution, iningi imindeni Empire Russian babe mikhulu, cishe zonke izihlobo abahlala ndawonye ngaphansi kophahla efanayo noma eduze komunye nomunye. Namuhla, isimo sibukeka ngokuphelele indlela ehlukile: bendabuko izindinganiso zemikhaya eRussia yesimanje kulandelwa nsuku zonke ngaphansi.

Futhi namhlanje, abaningi bethu bakuthola kunzima ekunqumeni ukuthi obani umuntu. Ngokuya imikhaya bomdabu Russian uye ayisesemikhulu kakhulu, kanye nezihlobo sikubiza kakade "amanzi ku jelly lwesikhombisa" awukwazi ukuchaza nobuhlobo babo, ezibuza: '? UMfoweth' umyeni - ngubani mina ".

Ukuze ukhumbule kalula ubani okumele Umfowabo womyeni wakhe noma udade, unkosikazi wakho, kufanele uthole kangcono isiko elidala ubuhlobo obuhle bomkhaya kwezihlobo nabasekhweni, ngalinye elikwazi wathola igama layo ngesiRashiya. Kuyathakazelisa ukwazi ukuthi igama elithi "umfowabo nomalokazana 'afika ngamanani izilimi Indo-European namanje ngesi-Sanskrit, ngokwezwi nezwi elisho ukuthi" indoda yesibili, "ngoba uma owesifazane ngalezo zinsuku waba umfelokazi ukukhathazeka kwakhe wathatha emahlombe akhe, umninawa wakhe, wahamba waya kuye ikhaya ngayo yonke inzalo yakhe.

umndeni wendoda entsha e-imithetho

Ngemva kokuba lo mbhangqwana babeshadile futhi ngafunga ukuthi babe ndawonye kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zakhe, iyunithi entsha umphakathi, abasebasha, imikhaya emisha phezu eyodwa futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi. Ukuze abhekane nalawo, igama lomninawa noma ezinye izihlobo abasemzini, labawatfolile esifundvweni nobe umshado, kudingeka sikhumbule ukuthi umndeni, ezavela abasha emva komtshado, abizwa ngokuthi abasemzini okungukuthi, izihlobo ngomshado, hhayi igazi.

Ngokusho lasendulo yasekhaya, indodana kufanele ilethe umkayo emzini wabazali bakhe, uhlalwe cishe wonke umkhaya wakhe. Ngakho abangena kukhona senkosikazi abasha? Iningi omusha azi ukuthi abazali bomyeni wakhe - ubaba emthethweni futhi umamezala, futhi Ungumkandodana yakhe ngabo - indodakazi noma umakoti. Ngo-umthetho - udade umyeni entsha, kodwa umfowabo bendoda - umzalwane nomalokazana ngoba umkakhe osemusha.

Ngemva abasha sebeqala ukuqonda entsha zomkhaya futhi nokuzwelana amagama ufunde mayelana sezindophi, zingabe zisakwazi kusimangaze imibuzo enjengokuthi: '? Umzalwane usebenza nomyeni wayo - Ingubani le " noma "Iyini udadewabo nomyeni wami?". Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi kulabo kukhona sina nentshisekelo kulo mbuzo, zikhanyise Isifiso sokuzenzela emindeni yabo isihlahla ephelele umndeni.

Kungani kubalulekile ukugcina ukuthula emkhayeni

Kukhona amacala lapho abazali, udade noma ubhuti, umyeni - kuyinkinga real ukuze athole umfazi osemusha onesimiso ukuphila nomndeni abasemzini endlini efanayo. Kulokhu, akudingekile ukuba senze isimo sishube. Udinga ukuzama ukuxazulula lolo dweshu ngokuthula futhi buthule, futhi kungcono ukuhambisa nomyeni wakhe e-zezindlu ehlukile, kukhona kungenzeka enjalo.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izimo ezinjalo zivame nemindeni abasha ngaphezulu ukuqala ukuphila ezimele, ngokushesha noma kamuva basayikhumbula izihlobo zabo nabasekhweni futhi baqonde ukubaluleka ikhono ukuzwana kahle umalokazana wakhe, umfowabo nomalokazana futhi Ubabezala. Zonke ziba ogogo nomkhulu, obabekazi nomalume, futhi yini enye ebingaba ebaluleke ngokwengeziwe abazali entsha kuka lo mndeni omkhulu wawuhamba futhi banobungane, okuyinto luyokhula izinyane kancane?