Yini abazali basuke bedinga ukwazi mayelana nenkathi lapho ingane iqala ahlale

Muva nje, imvuthuluka yakho wafunda ukugcina ikhanda futhi ukulawula ukuhanjiswa kuze izandla Naughty nezinyawo. Kwezinyanga ezimbalwa nje edlule, sajabula wabona ukumamatheka ingane kuqala futhi wezwa "Aga" yakhe yokuqala. Manje, Daze yakho yokunqoba ezinyoni yentuthuko - ukuze ufunde ukuthi ahlale.

Yini kuyinto evamile?

Kusukela ngenyanga 4th wokuphila, ingane iqala uzame phansi. Yiqiniso, imisipha emuva kwakhe namanje ayinamandla, futhi yonke imizamo imvuthuluka igcwaliswe nezimbi. Kodwa, sibonga lokhu kuqeqeshwa, isikhathi ngasinye umntwana azizwa eqiniseka kakhudlwana. Eduzane izinyanga 6, izingane eziningi bangahlala isikhathi eside, sithembele isibambo. Futhi ngemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, uma imisipha besisu futhi imisipha emuva ngokwanele wamqinisa isidingo ukugcina ukulinganisela ngosizo nasemilenzeni engenhla siqedwa. Phakathi ngenyanga 6th futhi 7th ingane iqala ukuba ahlale yedwa: azizwa unethemba, khulula ukujikisa ikhanda, uyabuka kudlala isithakazelo ezizungezile. Ngakho ubukeka isikhathi evamile, uma ingane iqala ahlale.

Ukuphambuka kusuka kuyinsakavukela - ngaso sonke isikhathi zokugula

Uma pipsqueak yakho ezikhulayo simo ezahlukene - musa ngicasuke bese aqoshiwe eyayiphathelene irisidi ukuba zonke izinhlobo odokotela. Kakade, imuphi kuyinto evamile? Lona nje nenani isilinganiso ezihlukahlukene ongakhetha. Futhi ingane yakho - uhlukile. It has Uhlelo ayo ukukhula nokuthuthuka amakhono amasha. Ngokwesibonelo, izingane eziningi siqale sifunde ukuma, ukuhamba kanye nenkulumo, bese kuphela ke - uvuke uhlale, ukukhasa.

Yini ngesikhathi ingane iqala ukuba ahlale lincike ohlotsheni umzimba kanye izici ngamunye. Elikhulu, izingane ubude kukhona kancane ukuze ngizigcine nginolwazi oluhle ngezinto ezazishiwo ontanga yabo emide emincane. I Tots emgogodleni udla ukuya umthwalo omkhulu, ngakho-ke, asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka uma pipsqueak yakho wahlala kancane kamuva kunamanye izingane. He is ngokuphelele enempilo!

Akukho lutho olubi e yokuthi ingane yakho ine a self-ihlala izinyanga ezingu-5 bese ubamba ibhalansi. Vele lo mntwana - asebenzayo futhi eqinile. Bezama ukuwugcina ngokuphelele, okuyinto evamile ngenkani ngokubeka imvuthu embhedeni, ungakwazi ukumzwisa ubuhlungu.

Nokho, kukhona ezinye izimpawu eziyisixwayiso, siphawula ukuthi kusadingeka ujike kudokotela wezingane. Ngakho, ngezinyanga ezingu-3-5, ingane kubi, ingaqiniseki igcina ikhanda, futhi lapho ngineminyaka engu-6-7 ayikhiphi umzamo ukuze baziphindiselele ngosizo lwabazali, njalo kumele esazini. Mhlawumbe, imvuthu zakho zidinga umzimba ezikhethekile, massage noma imithi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma indodana noma indodakazi ayikwazanga ahlale ngqo lemilenze eyeluliweyo - lena futhi isizathu uya esibhedlela.

Kanjani ukuze usize umntanakho ukuba zihlale phansi?

izinyanga 4-5, ingane iningi isikhathi esichithwa embhedeni noma izingalo kamama. Manje, uma ingane iqala ahlale, izwe kuvula ngaye ukukhanya entsha: engeli fresh kanye nemibala, eziningi ezithakazelisayo, kodwa izinto wafunda nezindawo. Ngithanda ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uhlole konke futhi ukwazi. Kulesi sigaba, abazali kufanele basize imvuthuluka ukuzizwa ekhululekile futhi wethemba the "ehlezi" isikhundla.

Lapho umntwana uqala ahlale, akusiyo njalo kungenzeka ukuba Ukudidiyela ukunyakaza. Lokho kungcono ukusebenzisa, kusaqalwa bese ugcine ukwesaba ke. Ngenxa yalesi suit zikagesi enezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile noma mathupha ezibaziweyo kusukela Foam "emuva." Ungalokothi ukutshala encane eqinile kakhulu. Kungaba ngcono ukubeka bazungeza umcamelo esithambile ukuthi kuzovimba ukulimala nemihuzuko ngokuwa okuseduze. Uma ingane yakho isethelwe ukuhlola umhlaba e sandbox, kwenze ukucindezeleka ezincane. Ethembele usiko, a pipsqueak ongama ukulinganisela.

Lapho umntwana uqala ahlale, into ebaluleke kakhulu kuye - uthando nokusekelwa. Smile cheers imvuthu kanye neze-ke unganqikazi!