Kungani iphupho izizukulwane?

Abantu obulokhu ukukholelwa njalo ukuthi amaphupho ethwele imilayezo ebethelwe. ososayensi Modern naloko ababekusho. Ukulala kungaba isixwayiso, kungaba libonise imicabango nezifiso yomuntu, imizwelo wazibonela emini. Ngakho-ke, kutoliga amaphupho, Akwanele ukwazi isiqu eyodwa kuphela. Kumele ukwazi ukusisebenzisa kumuntu othize, nezenzakalo ezithile eziqondile.

Okunye eziqeda amandla ukutolika ezahlukene, isibonelo, lokho iphupho sokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ivame ukutholakala banikelwe ihlathululo iDemo:

· Owesifazane uthukutheliswe nomyeni wakhe (encwadini iphupho .bigmir.net)

· Ukuze ukuzalwa umqondo omusha (Dream Incwadi Medea)

· Ushintsho empilweni (incwadi iphupho esikisela ucansi)

Futhi kuphela ezimbalwa, njengoDavide Lofa Dream Kuhumusha icacisa ukuthi amantombazane alinandaba ukuzalwa kwengane, iphupho kungenzeka reflection nowokwesaba ngeminyaka abaye bakhulelwa. Umuntu angabona ngokwami ukhulelwe, uma ukungabaza amakhono abo kwezocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nokukhulelwa kanye nokubeletha kungase kubonise usuku ukuqala nokuvuthwa, okukhiphayo emandleni abazali.

Ngokuvamile, impendulo emfushane yombuzo, yini iphupho lokuzalwa, akukwazi. Uma iphupho ubuswa emizweni izinkanuko: ubuhlungu, ukwesaba, khona-ke cishe kunazo, udinga ukuba banake impilo, kungenzeka kakhulu Izitho zokuzala. Zokwesaba, ukungaqiniseki ukukhathazeka owandile iphupho abonisa nakho okungokomoya, ayikulungele ukuba enze isinqumo. zabasebenzi eyimpumelelo, kunalokho, bathi umuntu kuzinga enganakile, ilungele ukwenza isinqumo ukuze uthole indlela ngqo.

Bathini eziqeda amandla mayelana nalokho uyaphupha umntwana? Dream incazelo we Fedorov uthi owesifazane leliphupho uyaphupha ekukhulelweni yangempela, futhi uthembisa indoda iphupho, uNkk uTheodore buthule.

Abesifazane IPHUPHO Incwadi engenza abalandeli bakhe, ukuthi leliphupho has a chance ukuqala kabusha, lokubuyekeza amagugu zokuphila. Owesifazane, uxwayisa okubi, qikelela ngaphezulu ngayo ekuziphatheni kwabo. Ephendula umbuzo othi "Yini ukuphupha amantombazane izizukulwane," encwadini iphupho kowesifazane esifanayo sika inikeza impendulo: ngenxa yezindaba ezinhle. Kulokhu, akucaci onjani izindaba ukulinda othile.

Incwadi iphupho esikisela ucansi uthi intombazane ephusheni, bese uthola ukwazi umuntu omusha.

ukuchaza amaphupho, odokotela bengqondo, bengqondo, ochwepheshe ubuthongo Iningi ngokunembile, ikhumbula indima isimo engokwengqondo yomuntu. Yingakho impendulo yombuzo othi, "Yini umntwana iphupho?" UDavide Lofa, Freud sasho, Dzhek Dauning nochwepheshe yethu yesimanje ukunikeza ezithi azifane, esinembile nezimpendulo enemininingwane.

Ngoba abantu, leliphupho liyakwazi ngamaphutha ukuthi kuphazamise ngokoqobo: zingenzi lutho olunyakazisa ku ngokwezenhlalo kanye obuseduze, isifiso ukudala into entsha, ukuqedela ukuthuthukisa umqondo, noma samuntu izinhlelo.

Ukuze abesifazane abashadile iphupho ubikezela nobunzima ezihlobene zokuxhumana umndeni, imizwa mayelana nesimo sakhe sengqondo.

Amantombazane asemancane kungukuthi ngokuthi izinkinga ezinkulu, ukulala kungadalwa izizathu bokuphila: ukuthomba, kusondela nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini, ukuvuvukala Izitho zokuzala.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungaba ubheke alamu mayelana nokukhulelwa ethize kakhulu.

Ingabe kufanele ngikukholelwe dream izincwadi? Lokhu abantu umbuzo ubelokhu ezama ukuphendula amashumi eminyaka. Impendulo ecacile: kubalulekile, uma incazelo iphupho enjalo eyenziwe man, uyaqonda udaba. Kodwa ngisho physiologists, odokotela bengqondo futhi bengqondo ungenziwa kuphela ukunikeza izincazelo jikelele ngokwengqondo noma zengqondo evame ukubuzwa yibo bonke. Ngokwesibonelo, babenakho ukwesaba ephusheni kuyinto isibindi ogulayo, futhi amadoda nqunu dream esiningi abesifazane nge zokuzala izifo ipheshana.

ukuhumusha nangokuqondile iphupho kungenzeka, kuphela kokwazi ngomuntu othile, isimo sakhe sempilo, indlela yokuphila kanye nesimo esiphuthumayo.