Izimbangela kwenqondo yesifo: Iqiniso noma ziyindaba eqanjiwe?

Uke wacabanga ngazo zonke nanini ukuthi izifo ezingavela okungaka ngenxa besesimweni esibuthakathaka kwesimiso somzimba sokuzivikela ezifweni, kodwa impilo yakho? It ngempela. Kwenqondo izimbangela zezifo waqala ukuthola isikhathi eside, futhi namuhla le nkampani zimiswe umbono ukuthi isimo elingaphakathi umuntu kubangela isifo. Isibonelo esihle kungaba nezingane. Ingabe silalela lokho izikhathi izingane agule? Uma ucela, uzophawula ukuthi izimbangela zabo ngokwengqondo isifo ngokuvamile amanga ezimpikiswaneni, ukuxabana emkhayeni, ebuhlotsheni ezimbi nontanga yabo engadini noma esikoleni, futhi nje yokuntuleka ukunakwa. Kodwa ngempela, uma umuntu omdala ngoba ematasa kakhulu namuhla ngomsebenzi, imisebenzi yabo yasekhaya noma oshade naye, ingane indlela engcono kakhulu ukuba amehlo, ukudweba isisa, uthando nokunakekela - ke uyagula.

Eminyakeni yamuva, i-izimbangela ezingokwengqondo yokutadisha isifo hhayi kuphela zokusebenza kwengqondo, kodwa futhi odokotela. Lokhu kuchazwe iqiniso lokuthi ekwelapheni isifo uqhutshwa ngokuvamile ngaphandle ekuqedeni ngaleyo ndlela isizathu esiyisisekelo, odokotela ayilitholi yi ephelele. Ezimweni eziningi lesi sifo okuphindaphindiwe futhi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphathwa kuthatha isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke, bezempilo sithambekele akholelwa ukuthi, ususe iziguli zabo izimbangela, izimbangela ezingokwengqondo of izifo, abenzele alulame ngokugcwele, ngoba ngokwako isifo on ezingeni ngokomzimba, akabe esaba khona.

Ngokombono ongokwesayensi uchaza inqubo yentuthuko isifo esinjengo: ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, nakho ophikelelayo, iloli sezinzwa nokucindezeleka okuqhubeka isikhathi eside ebhubhisa umzimba womuntu kusuka ngaphakathi. Lokhu kwenza kube ukuzilwela kakhudlwana futhi sengozini amagciwane bangaphandle amagciwane njalo ehlasela umzimba. Enomqondo ucabangela lesi simanga, ukuthi ingafaniswa umphumela self-hypnosis, okuyinto umqondo womuntu linendima ebalulekile. Ngakho, umuntu 'steel "izinzwa cishe never abagulayo, futhi uma wamfica isifo, iyashesha futhi kulula, ngaphandle kokudala ukuxakeka. abantu Hypochondriac efanayo bagule nge kokuphazamiseka kangako noma abangafundile nhlobo. Uma abanakho isifo, they nzonzobala edingekayo ukuze ugqozi ngokwami ukuthi. Ngokwesibonelo, uma indoda uzoqala ukuhlupha ubuhlungu esiswini, ngenxa nje yokuthi wadla ukudla endala, wayehlale enquma ukuthi isilonda sakhe. Iqiniso amahloni kakhulu futhi nakuba - lena isifo ngempela avele uma abantu uzoqhubeka nokuba ucabange ngakho. Yingakho odokotela bengqondo ukuncoma ukuqeda izimbangela ezingokwengqondo yesifo ngokusebenzisa imizwelo eyakhayo, ajabule futhi esiqala emnandi. Iziguli kufanele belulekwe ukukhohlwa eziphathelene nokugula, ungacabangi ngakho ngaso sonke futhi avela eqinile, eyingqabavu futhi ephelele. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, ukusimama iqala imibono emihle.

Imbangela yesifo ingase futhi zanqwabelana ukukhathala okungamahlalakhona. Umuntu umuntu angabi naso isikhathi sokulala, isigqi yabo yokuphila "begijima ijubane wagan 'unwabu" usengozini yokuthola izifo ezehlukene kunabantu ngokuphila kulinganiswa. Abantu ngokuvamile Awunawo isikhashana mahhala, wena nje kufanele bafunde ukuba uphumule, ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe ngaphandle, ehamba ensimini noma ipaki. Zonke abasebenzi kufanele ashiye ezinkingeni ababhekene nazo emsebenzini, bese uya ekhaya ukuze kokuhlala ezimnandi kumbuthano labangani asondelene nabo.

Efingqa, Ngifuna ukugcizelela waphinda ukuthi kumelwe siqale sinqobe izimbangela ezingokomoya kwezifo ekulweni nezifo. Phela, kalula engqondweni, omuhle isimo futhi ubuhle umphefumulo kukhona isihluthulelo sempilo enhle.