It kuvela ukuthi ukugibela kuyasiza ukwesaba ukwehluleka

Intathelizindaba Stephanie Lee has wokuzilibazisa eliyingqayizivele - rock ekhuphuka. Ukucaca - yalemisebenzi, okuyinto ikuvumela ukuba uqeqeshe amandla nokukhuthazela kwenu kule mibandela ezithandekayo nemiphumela amazing. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphezu ukuqeqesha umzimba, ke izitimela kanye umoya, okuvumela ukuba baqine ngokuya zokuziphatha. Nokho, rock ekhuphuka - kungcono omunye kulezo zindawo lapho udinga ukuba sibekezelele ukwehluleka njalo ukuthi ube ngcono. Udinga ukwazi amaphutha phambi kwabo bonke, futhi musa asilalelisise ukugxekwa mayelana imiphumela yakho. Eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili edlule, Stephanie wayengasenakukwazi ukubekezelela konke lokhu futhi, ngokufanelekile, kungabalula kangcono ekhuphuka. Ngenxa yalokho, uye okwamiswa ngalo ukuba wahlanganyela kuzo ngaso sonke.

Climbing nokwehluleka zokunqoba

Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, waqala ukuqeqeshwa isisindo, okuyinto ayemfundisa ukuthi umuntu ngeke akwazi ukufeza umgomo walo uma ngaso sonke isikhathi sizame ukukhombisa imiphumela emihle, futhi sifunde emaphutheni abo. Futhi manje-ke likhuphuka. Ngaleso sikhathi ekuphileni kwakhe, abe nokuhluleka amaningi zenzeka, ezifana ukungakwazi ukukhulisa ezihlelelwe isisindo, ukwehluleka ukufeza ukusebenza okudingekayo esilinganisweni, ukungakwazi ukulawula ukudla kwabo kanye nokunye. Wacabanga ukuthi kwase kuyisikhathi eside abasijwayele ukwehluleka. Nokho, kwathi, uma kuziwa ekhuphuka, kusenzima kude kakhulu ekahle ukuba banqobe isifiso sokufuna ukuyeka ngemva kwenye ukwehluleka, nakuba indlela yayo yashintsha ngokuphelele. Umehluko Nokho wukuthi manje uStephanie ucabangela ukugibela uzivivinye ukuze lezo zithiyo futhi isifuna ukwabelana nawe ezinye izeluleko ezingakusiza wakhe namuhla.

Uma omunye indlela akusebenzi, bazama okunye okuhlukile

Uma Stephanie wazama ugibele umzila othile, uthome unyawo kwesokunxele, ngoba kwaba ezikahle kangaka. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ayengakwazi ukuthola ngisho ukuthi ungaqala kanjani. Kodwa ke othile wambuza: "Kungani ungabi ushintshe ijubane futhi ushintshe maphakathi gravity yindlela efanayo?", Futhi ushintsho oluncane bamvumela ukuzulazula umzila kusukela okokuqala.

Khohlwa ngakho futhi wamukele ngokwakho lokho onakho

yokwesaba lakho amaphesenti ukwehluleka 99 ka ixhomeke kulokho ukuzazisa yakho ikugcina bagcizelele ukuthi awukwazi kwakukubi ngaphezu omangalisayo. Kodwa uma kuziwa iqiniso elibuhlungu futhi awukwazi ukugibela umzila kuhlelwe kho ego iba isizathu esiyinhloko ukuthi ungakwazi ukuyeka imizamo eyengeziwe. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuze ube ngcono kokuthile, udinga lokhu kuyakuba kubi. Uma ukhumbula lokhu, uyokwazi ukuba ngaphezulu kunengqondo lesitfombe bese sibone ukuthi okwamanje usebenzisa amathuba yakho, nokuthi udinga ukushintsha ukuze uthuthukise isikolo sakho.

Cela usizo nokuxhaswa

Ukugibela idwala - kuba umsebenzi womphakathi, futhi lokhu yingakho abaqwali uqhubeke ukuzama, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izimo. Abangani bakho abaphila kangcono kunawe ababeyizazi rock ekhuphuka angakunika izeluleko, izincomo, ukuphakamisa ukuthi ukulifunda ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene ekuxazululeni izinkinga, okuyinto wena ngeke ukuyichaza. Bona ukuthi udinga usizo, kungaba nzima kakhulu, kodwa uma namanje, kuyobe esheshisa inqubo yakho yokufunda kanye ngcono.

Akufanele uziqhathanisa ubani

Ekuxazululeni izinkinga incike kumuntu, futhi awukwazi ukufunda konke ngokubuka umuntu oyedwa, njengoba umzimba wakhe, ukuphakama, esitho obuphelele namandla bambeke indlela eyingqayizivele futhi ayihambelani ngokugcwele ukusebenza kwakho. Kudingeka ukuthi uqale ukuba belwela bese uyazama konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwawo siqu. Futhi lokhu awasebenzi kuphela ukugibela, kodwa wonke zokuphila kwakho.

Ukulwa Ukwesaba ukwehluleka

Icacisa indlela engcono ukukhuphuka omunye odongeni ukukhweza nokunye - kungcono into efanayo njengoba ukusonga KaMose usebenzisa umzimba wonke umshikashika wokuthola okokuziphilisa njalo namabutho ezingabonakali ezifana amandla okudonsa noma ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme (noma ukwesaba ukuhluleka). Uma ungakwazi ukuzitholela onqenqemeni esilandelayo, kungase kudingeke ukuzama enganga eduze odongeni bakwazi isandla sakhe sifinyelele umemeze. Indlela yodwa kuze thola cishile - kungcono emuva odongeni bese uyazama futhi.