I Igebe umphefumulo, isizungu - umusho noma umthombo?

Ungakwazi ukufinyelela ezindaweni eziphakemeyo ezindaweni ezahlukene kakhulu ekuphileni: ibhizinisi, umndeni, ezombusazwe, njll Kuphela abantu lokhu akubi bajabule kakhudlwana. I Igebe umphefumulo, ukudabuka, usizi, ukudabuka - njalo "izivakashi" kwenhliziyo yomuntu. Yini okungekho? Yini evimbela ukuba bukhoma ngokuthula nangenjabulo? Impendulo banal - bangabi nokuqonda eziyisisekelo zokuphila kwakhe samisa kakhulu nokunenjongo ngokwengeziwe.

Ezinye ayindlela okuxekethile wokuphila, uzama 'ukuthola injabulo "ezansi ibhodlela noma abaningi ukuzidela" yokubonisana uthando ". Kodwa ingabe babeyokulindela ujabule? I Igebe umphefumulo ikhula kuphela.

nomuzwa wokulahlekelwa Ezingokomoya nginomuzwa ngokushesha ngemva namalanga. Uma unomkhaya okumele zinakekelwe futhi aqukethe umuntu ukuthi kukhona liyancedisana phambili, futhi uma kungenjalo?! Angakhuluma ngobuhle, ukukhuluma ngenkolo, kodwa namanje iyaya sikhala, ikakhulukazi ikhodi eyedwa naye. Izinkinga emsebenzini, izingxabano emndenini, ukugula noma ezinye izinkathazo naphula indoda ukubhubhisa esintengayo isimiso amagugu , futhi futhi umphefumulo sikhala.

Cishe sonke isisusa esiyinhloko ekukhetheni umsebenzi - imali. Nakuba ososayensi ucwaningo ahlulekile ukuthola ubudlelwano phakathi imali nenjabulo. Esikhathini kusuka 1957 kuya ku-1990, ukwanda lengenako waphawula e-United States kabili. Kodwa izibalo survey wembula ukuthi lizinga enjabulweni awuzange ushintshe, kuyilapho inani labantu okufanele ukucindezeleka kuye kwanda ngokuphindwe kayishumi. Sonke siyazi ukuthi uyobhekana kanjani, kodwa yeka indlela ukuphila akwaziwa ukuthi abaningi bethu.

Okwesikhathi esithile, abantu eliqhutshwa isisusa Bheka imoto enhle, indlu, uzokwazi ukuba uphumule ngengxenye enhle kakhulu zomhlaba, futhi ngizobuya sijabule! Man ufinyelela oyifunayo, kodwa ungalokothi uthola injabulo. Ephinde ehlangana nge wokulahlekelwa. Indoda iba ngaphezulu inhlalakahle kanye wokuthokoza kungukuthi uyalandelwa. Othile uthola zonke izinto zokuzilibazisa ezintsha futhi esisha, ihlala usuku lonke TV, ngokudlala imidlalo yama-computer, benethemba lokuthi bazosinda kusukela imicabango kucindezele ngendlela efanayo. Kodwa kuphela uthola nzima. Abanye sebeqala ukucabanga okwengeziwe ngenkolo, kodwa uthulisa phansi kuphela okwesikhashana.

Kungani konke kanzima kangaka? Izimbangela abakulesi simo bangase babe eziningana. Omunye wabo - ukuntuleka igunya okunenjongo nenjongo ekuphileni. Wonke umuntu kumele abe umgomo. Noma ubani owazi le "kungani" ukuphila, asinde noma yimuphi "indlela."

Nsuku zonke kufanele kube nentuthuko: ngokomoya, ngokomzimba, yengqondo ebhaliwe, futhi lokhu kubaluleke ngaphezu ayothenga izingubo ezintsha noma izimoto. Ngokwesibonelo, Ikholwa angeke libe ngaba nomuzwa wokulahlekelwa e umphefumulo nokuphelelwa ithemba. Ngesikhathi "isomiso esingokomoya" ngaye wonke amagama akuleli imiBhalo, njengoba imvula ekhukhulayo nge rainbow ezimibalabala. Okungukuthi, kwenzeka ukuba omunye esikholwa kuphela kuyaqina, ehlakaniphile enetjhuguluko lapho sibhekene nezinkinga futhi nezinkinga empilweni. Ikhiqiza omubi ku imizwelo eyakhayo, uhlale eligcina enhliziyweni yakhe injabulo nokwethembela impumelelo. Kucishe ayikwazi siphukile, kungekho umcimbi ukuphila.

Ikhono ukulawula imizwa yabo, bona, isipiliyoni sabo - kuyisihluthulelo senjabulo.

I Igebe umphefumulo - othembekile isizungu ukuthi sonke ngezinye izikhathi uzizwe. Abantu ozama kugwenywe lokhu enovalo ukuba yedwa ngokwakho, imicabango yakho, nezindaba engqondo ne-methane. Thina bukele i-TV, umsakazo, uzama ngigcine ingqondo yami imatasa nento ukwenza, kodwa ngeke uzwe ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi kithi.

Kodwa ingabe isizungu ngakho ezimbi ngempela? Futhi kungakhathaliseki ingagwenywa?

Isizungu - indlela engcono kakhulu ukuba uzazi kahle wena.

Ukukhungatheka enhliziyweni yakhe - isimo lapho umphefumulo idabukile ukufuna iqiniso ngempilo. Siqala ukuzizwa ubuze, lapho ungazitholi izimpendulo zemibuzo eyinhloko umphefumulo, noma edume kazanelisi kithi.

Le ndoda ibuthakathaka kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile ngemva imicabango yabantu zabantu kanye eyeqisayo, kuphila ngendlela okunjalo akukhona ukuphila kwakhe, akhohlwe izidingo umphefumulo wakhe. injabulo Carnal kanye nogqozi ukufihla kithi iqiniso elula. Usungene shí i isikhathi ezingadingekile, futhi siyeke ukuzizwa empilweni yangempela. Futhi lapho isiyodwa nabo, willy-nilly, akhe ucabange ngalokhu.

Leso sikhashana yesizungu, yize isithukuthezi kubaluleke kabi, hhayi ukufuna induduzo ukuzijabulisa, hhayi ukuphazamisa ngokwabo namakilasi ezingenalutho, bese uzama ukuphendula ngokwakho ezintweni eziseqhulwini umphefumulo.