Hickey - ayini? Hickey syndrome - kuyini?

Muva nje, isichazamazwi yobusha, ngokukhethekile, anime fans, ungeze eside entsha. Namuhla fashion igama elithi "hikikomori" (ngokuvamile wamthola nje ngokuthi "Hickey"). Kuyini lokhu? Ikholi Japanese njengoba sezikhulile, lihambe liye ekamelweni lalo engasafuni ubani ukuxhumana, emsebenzini noma ucwaningo. Umuntu onjalo angeke baxhumane kalula nezwe elingaphandle kwezinyanga ezimbalwa. Ukuze umuntu ovamile lokhu kuziphatha kungase kubonakale uphawu lokugula ngengqondo. Nokho, "Crazies" enjalo usuku ngalunye oludlulayo ke kuba more, amagoli ku izigidi.

Lapho kukhulunywa ngaye okokuqala

EJapane, kakade incwadi yakhishwa ngo-1998, lapho liphendula imibuzo, "Hickey - kuyini?" Futhi "indlela ukuvikela ingane yakho?". Empeleni, lo mhlahlandlela ukusiza ukubhekana nalesi simo. Tamaki Saito, umbhali wenkondlo ephambili emsebenzini, unganqikazi ukuthi eJapane kube inkinga ngempela. Izwe echumayo athuthukile kakhulu of abangaphezu kwesigidi intsha (futhi lokhu kufana cishe amaphesenti angu-nesimo) ngenxa yezizathu bengayiqondi isici zokuxhumana kanye ungafisi ukuxhumana nezwe elingaphandle.

IsAmbulo nombhali kubange ukushaqeka real izakhamuzi Japan. Kodwa uma ekumbeni ujule, ungabona - akukho inkinga kule minyaka yamuva.

Inkinga "idolobha elikhulu"

Uma uya endaweni ethile ukuze enyakatho ekude futhi ukhulume hikikomori, abantu kuyoba bamangale kakhulu. "Hickey? Kuyini? "- babuza wena. Yiqiniso, ezindaweni ezigqagqene, lesi simanga akunakwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke. Kukhona ziyajabula iyiphi isivakashi.

Nokho, ake sibheke isimo ngaphesheya. emadolobheni Huge yesimanje zidinga njalo nabo nsuku zonke nge inani elikhulu labantu ajwayelekile futhi ezingajwayelekile. Ngokuvamile, isimo lapho ubuso, ukuphinda kubo. Lokho, umuntu wazi kusengaphambili lokho anakho uyisho, nokuthi yini ukubuza, kanjani, lokho isimo sobuso abe esimweni esithile. Yingaleso sikhathi, futhi kuza "inja emnyama."

Ngaphezu kwalokhu, nezela ngeMisombuluko ukuthi ngakho 'umthande' ngandlelani abantu bethu (endleleni, akumangazi ukuthi kungani eminyakeni yamuva nje kwaqala ukuvela futhi Russian Hickey). Ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbili off umuntu umane bahoxe umsebenzi kufanele futhi iyangena ohlelweni. Kulesi ubani usuku ofuna uzishaye ogulayo, ukhathele. Ninakho, kodwa ngeke ushiye endlini.

Ukuze ngamunye wethu wabhekana nalokhu umuzwa: Angifuni ukuya emsebenzini (cwaningo) ngeke avule umnyango nabangani (izihlobo), maduze nje woza, nokunye. Lokho ukuba Hickey - kuba impela evamile? Futhi ngamunye wethu abe hikikomori kancane?

Yini benza

Umbuzo oyinhloko ephakama kuzo zonke izihlobo le nsizwa ngokuzumayo owaba Hickey: "Yini wayenza ekusithekeni" kwenqwaba impendulo ilula: "ukudlala isiwula!". Kuyiqiniso: ukuze atadishe, yena akafuni ukusebenza kakhulu, uyalala kwaze kwaba semini, sonke isikhathi sakhe ngo-computer noma ukubukela ithelevishini. Ngisho ne sisondelene engafuni. Nje imisho embalwa ongathi, ngaphandle kokuvula umnyango. Futhi lonke izwe futhi akanandaba.

Ezinye ihlaya mayelana Hickey: "Luhlobo luni lokuziphatha Yebo, bona nje khumbula imiyalelo yabazali babo bakhuluma kubo ebuntwaneni." Indlu buthule bese musa ukuvula umnyango kunoma ubani. ' " Ngempela, umnyango owawuholela kwelinye ikamelo hikikomori kuvula kuphela ebusuku. Osemusha sneaks ekhishini abese ngokushesha odla kuze kube akekho oqaphelile.

Umuntu uba kanjani Hickey

Lokhu ngeke kwenzeke indoda ngemuva kwesikhashana. Ngokuvamile kuba yi zokucindezeleka eside. Ngokwesibonelo, usuku ngalunye ngesikhathi esifanayo etafuleni izihlobo share nomunye nakho, ukhulume nabangane abasha, mayelana impumelelo yakhe emsebenzini wakhe, nokunye .. Konke lokhu wokulalela guy noma intombazane okwamanje nobunzima emkhakheni wabo siqu noma professional zokuphila. Futhi usuku ngalunye oludlulayo ukuqiniseka kwabo incipha, angabe esaba zethembe.

Lesi simo esiyingqayizivele sibangelwa eladabuka Japan. Kodwa kuleli lizwe namuhla kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umsebenzi, intsha umane ningakholwa bazokwazi ukuthola okungenani amanye indawo empilweni. Nokho, bonke abazali ngiphupha nendodana noma nendodakazi yabo ukuthatha isikhundla okuhle inkampani ezinye ehlonishwayo, futhi akazange sakhathala ukukhunjuzwa izingane zabo ngakho.

By endleleni, lokhu mkhuba kuvamile, hhayi nje phakathi kwentsha Japanese. Ezweni lethu eminyakeni yamuva futhi kwakukhona Hermits ezintweni eziningi ezinjalo. AmaRashiya bengacelanga bemangele, "Hickey? Kuyini na? "Ngenxa nokuntengantenga zalesi simo eye kuyinsakavukela eRussia. Abantu abasha abakwazi ukuhlonza isiqondiso esibalulekile, abanakho injongo, futhi izinkinga zabo akekho ofuna ukubona. Izinkinga zanqwabelana mass, futhi izimpendulo khona. Yingakho ingxenye intsha Russian nje ufuna ukufihla kude futhi ukuphendula noma ubani.

Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi ngenkathi ukuziphatha ingane akazange zehluke kwezinkambiso olwamukelwa, futhi akekho oqaphelile. Nokho, ngokushesha nje lapho kutholakala ngendlela yasekuqaleni aphume izimo ezinzima futhi ukuvala ngokwako - emhlabeni ayinandaba. Konke waqala ukukhuluma ngalokho, azisebenzi, ungatholi impesheni. Psychiatrists sina basikisela ukuthi izingane kufanele aphathwe. Kodwa Hickey (isithombe ngenhla) cha is sangene. Kuwufanele nje kancane ukuze akhulule a ingane enjalo, ngokungazelelwe ephenduka umuntu abathanda futhi kuphumelele. Ngakho-ke, thina akumelwe emcindezela. Yiba umngane wazo wangempela kuye, biza uhambo, ukubonisa okuthile ezithakazelisayo, futhi "incibilikiswa".

Hickey emhlabeni wonke

Emazweni Western ukholelwa ukuthi into efana "hikikomori", ubengase kuvele "Japanese yinqaba". Kodwa lokhu akulona iqiniso. I namuhla inethiwekhi igcwele izinkomba Hickey. Intsha kusuka emhlabeni wonke ngolwazi siqu ku-intanethi. Umuntu kumelwe amane ukufunda inothi Russian Hickey - kangakanani ubuhlungu laba bantu abasha zingena ngo-World Wide Web, ngoba ungezwa ekhaya. Kodwa kudingeka kube lula ukukuqonda, ukuqonda izinkinga zabo, baxoxe izakhiwo zabo, ukukholelwa amathalente abo.

Kunoma yiliphi izwe kukhona intsha kweshumi eziningana abazithoba esikoleni washiya uzovalwa kusukela izwe ngaphandle. Kodwa ingabe umzali ongayedwa aqonde into enjalo ezweni lethu? Yebo, futhi akuzona zonke ingane eRussia kukhona ekamelweni elihlukile, aphephele ke. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yezwi baseRussia hikikomori uhlala inkulumo imfashini.

Afterword

Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, into kusukela kule isiko has cishe njalo ingane. Abanye abantu abasha, isibonelo, abaya ezikoleni nasemanyuvesi kuphela ngoba kubalulekile. Yeka indlela ajabula ngayo Ngabe ngithé: "Singabantu Hermits futhi Hickey, ningathinti nathi, sizokwenza nje ukulala, ukudla kanye ukubukela i-TV." Kodwa ngeke kube. Ngakho-ke, balele ekilasini, akanandaba ulwazi olusha, ikakhulukazi nje ukudlala efonini yakho ephathekayo.

Lezi intsha ungafuni ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ekhaya lakhe. Phela, kukhona abazali ukukhuluma kubo kunzima, abazi ukuchaza isifiso sabo Kuvalelwe ngaphandle emhlabeni. Ngisho ikhompyutha kuzo awukwazi ukufihla, usazoba kakhulu entuthukweni, eziningi ucasukile. Ngakho lokho esinakho eRussia has Hickey lalo. Mhlawumbe thina nje isikhathi ukushintsha into ezimpilweni zethu?