Futhi isithembu - kunjani? Bangobani mnogolyubtsy?

Kukhona evamile yokuthi indoda ihlale isithembu. Yiqiniso, nengxenye-iqiniso. Kukhona uhlobo amadoda abakhetha ukuzama konke futhi wonke umuntu. Noma kunjalo, kukhona namanje labo bayakujabulela ukuphila eminyakeni eyikhulu olulodwa. Yiziphi, amadoda esithenjini? Kungani? Ukhona owesifazane efanayo?

Mayelana abesifazane, amadoda kanye nomndeni

Asiqale ihlathululo ukuthi kusho ukuthini "indoda enesithembu." Mina ngingozifakazelayo, uncamela owakwakhe eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngokuvamile elithi esithenjini laqanjwa ukuchaza inkolelo yokungafi isithembu noma polyandry. Ukuze abesifazane kwathiwa ngisho wadala definition ahlukene - polyandry. Lokho isimo somshado namadoda amaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Incazelo yesimanje ngomshado kuhlanganisa umshado esisemthethweni ngophawu e passport kanye nobufakazi, kanye nesimo civil lapho abantu bephila ndawonye ngaphandle ngokusemthethweni nobuhlobo babo. Owesifazane ohlala indoda, kodwa zifana njalo ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo obuseduze nomunye kuvakashe ummeleli wendlunkulu nengxenye enamandla lwesintu, Uphinde abhekwe ukuba esithenjini. Nakuba isetshenziswa, futhi nabanye abambalwa - indawo ngekukhula ezinenhlamba.

umndeni isithembu - umkhaya othile lapho kukhona umyeni nabafazi eziningana, noma okuphambene nalokho (kodwa akuvamile). ERussia, lokhu mqondo ingasebenza modified. Isithembu - lokhu kungesilo ophila iqukethe abesifazane abaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa, okuholela epulazini labo, kanti lo okunguyena nanakekela ngayo izidingo zazo nge izintokazi ahlukahlukene. Ngokuvamile benjalo bangaqondi ngokuba khona komunye nomunye, kodwa musa ukumelana eziyimbangela yalokhu. Kukhona futhi ongakhetha lapho umyeni - imikhaya emibili, ngamunye nengane yayo okhulayo. Ingabe singasho ukuthi lo muntu isithembu? Lokhu (kanye isithembu), nakuba kunqatshelwe ngokomthetho, indawo ukuba. Enye into ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu angakwazi ukukhokhela ukuba imikhaya eminingana.

EMpumalanga, lapho ngokwesiko akuvumelekile futhi wakhuthaza isithembu, isithembu isiba akusebenzi. Bayanda wathola ezivamile - imishado monogamous - okuyinto lukhula izingane eziningana. Futhi acebile umndeni, ezincane, bese bethola umntwana. Abesilisa akuzona inzuzo kakhulu ukuba abantu besifazane abaningi, kusukela ngamunye ukuze ukhulise izingane, ukuxazulula izingxabano umndeni phakathi ethandekayo. Futhi Loving Njalo kungenzeki ngokulinganayo.

Nokho abaningi namanje uzibuze umbuzo esiyisaga: "isithembu - kunjani?" Akukhona isithembu, uma umuntu ubasiza ephindelela emshadweni monogamous. Lena isimo lapho bobabili abangane bomshado eziningana (cohabitants). Abesifazane ukubekezelela lesi isimo Kusengenzeka, bangakunaki nengqondo enetjhuguluko. Abesilisa ziyafana - akukho. isazela sabo yemvelo - ukuba owesilisa kuphela lady yakhe - ayikuvumeli ukuba wesibili noma ngowesithathu, ngisho umyeni wakhe amthandayo. Yini ngaphezulu! Akuwona wonke umuntu uyakwazi ukuthethelela ukungathembeki ingasaphathwa Eqinisweni, ukubekezelela lady yakhe a esithenjini. Ngokuvamile imikhaya ngisho nokuwabona bokuba khona nomunye iphuzu elithile. amadoda esithenjini njalo sokusungula emizamweni yabo yokufihla eziyimbangela kweqiniso. Kodwa nokho kukhona namanje labo romantics abakholelwa ukuthi ongakwazi ukumthanda umuntu oyedwa zonke ekuphileni kwami futhi ngibe naye. Kanye labo ukuthi ukuphila nabantu abaningi ngesikhathi esisodwa - Uthando lukulokhu.