Imithetho yokuziphatha amantombazane: lokho odinga ukukwazi ukuze ukwethula ngokwabo esimweni esihle

Abaningi sebekholelwa ukuthi umqondo yokuziphatha ziba asihlobene. Nokho, lo mbono uyihaba: kunemithetho eminingi kangaka, futhi kufanele akhethwe ngamunye bona. Kungani? Ngoba kukhona nemithetho yokuziphatha amantombazane, abafana, ekilabhini, emsebenzini, ekusebenzelaneni nabantu ongabazi, ne amadala, nokuningi.

Kungani kudingeka banamathele ezindinganisweni zokuziphatha? Ukuze inhlonipho kwabanye, obonisa izinga idatha ngokuziphatha.

Umsebenzi wethu - ukucabangela ezinye imithetho ukuthi ukubhekana ngqo amantombazane. Ngakho, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhuluma ngokuningiliziwe, uqaphele ukuthi isimo ngasinye kudinga Yiqiniso ezithile senzo. Ngenxa sibheke amanye amasu ezivamile.

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuhlonipha amantombazane - kungcono nje kubaluleke njengokugwema izingubo, izicathulo kanye izimonyo. Lolu hlobo "ubuso 'yowesifazane, izimfanelo zakhe kwangaphakathi futhi engasenathonya.

Ngokwesibonelo, uma intombazane umenyiwe ukuvakashela, izinkambiso yokuziphatha zimi kanje:

1. Uma ungakwazi ukuza, udinga ukuba bangayeki kusengaphambili ukuba uwayehlalise ukwazi ukuthi zingaki izivakashi lindela it. Yiqiniso, kukhona into okuthiwa izehlakalo. Kuphela ngale ndlela uyamukeleka uxwayise mayelana ukungezwakali kwawo ngokushesha ngaphambi iholide. Uma uthanda ukudla imifino, wamisa abantu kubani iya ekuvakasheni edumile. Indaba ebaluleke kakhulu ukulawula inani utshwala idliwe. Imithetho yokuziphatha amantombazane kulokhu kuqine kakhulu ngoba amadoda: 'Uma owesifazane akakwazi ukulawula ngokwakho, kubukeka, okungenani, okumbi.
2. Uma ibizwe izivakashi ke uhlelo kuhlukile kancane. Okokuqala, kufanele wazise zonke lezo ungathanda ukubona kusengaphambili abo, ukuze abantu bakwazi ukuhlela konke. Khumbula ukuthi bonke imikhosi kukhona isenzakalo izivakashi kufanele bazazi. Futhi, nemithetho yokuziphatha amantombazane, kanye amadoda, kulesi simo ukuthi izinto lungisa ebukhoneni izivakashi akufanele kube. Lokhu kumele kwenziwe ngasese, ungafaki abanye abantu.

Iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukuziphatha intombazane zanamuhla izingubo zakhe futhi ukubukeka. Yiqiniso, niyothi ukuthi udinga ukukhetha isitayela yokugqoka ngokuvumelana ngezikhathi ezithile kanye nezindawo. Ngakho, izinto zokubhukuda kanye izingubo esiqinile uvumelane umsebenzi kanye nemihlangano olusemthethweni. Ngokuqondene isitayela ezemidlalo, kufanelekile ejimini, futhi sishaywe umoya nsuku zonke. Nokho, khumbula ukuthi imithetho amantombazane ukukhethwa izingubo nazo esiqinile, futhi acabangele hhayi kuphela indawo lapho uya, kodwa umbono wokuthi uya ukwenza kwabanye. Njengoba wazi, ukuhlangabezana izingubo, ngoba akudingekile ukuba agqoke up inhlamba futhi inkanuko, uma izinhloso zakho othembekile nangokuhlonipheka.

Umbuzo obalulekile isihloko yokuziphatha - ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Lo wesifazane - kummeleli ubulili bubuhle, kodwa ukuze kube ngowokuqala ukuthatha isinyathelo nokubonisa isithakazelo ukujabulisa abantu bakhe. Nokho, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ukugcina imithetho yokuziphatha amantombazane ukuba angaweli esicuphweni sesimweni kwambangela neze lihlanjalazwa. Khumbula ukuthi kufanele ube uqiniseka, ezikhangayo ngokwanele, kodwa hhayi inhlamba, nobudlelwano kodwa hhayi Swagger. Ngaphezu kwalokho, qiniseka inkulumo yakho: akufanele inhlamba nokuhlukumeza. Owesifazane mumbe ohlala ivumela yena ukusebenzisa amagama anjengokuthi, akasoze be dumile among ngiqiniseka amadoda ehloniphekile. Khumbula ukuthi udinga ukwazi ukulwela into kungokwakho, kodwa lapho ukhetha izindlela, akudingekile ukuba uthanda lezo sizothinta udumo kanye nesithunzi nabantu abaseduze nawe. Yazi indlela ukuphuma isimo kahle, khona-ke bonke abantu ngabe ezinyaweni zakho!