Ezinyangeni eziningi kanjani ingane kunesithembiso ikhanda lakhe lodwa?

Esinye sezizathu esiyinhloko alamu zonke esanda umama Yiqiniso, ngamunye umbuzo othi: "Ezinyangeni eziningi kanjani ingane kunesithembiso ikhanda lakhe?". Akekho umuntu akuyona ngempela kakhulu injabulo, nizitholele "Beginners" omama. Inani elikhulu of izinkinga kumelwe zixazululwe ngaphambi kokukhulelwa: sizodlani, yini ongayenza, yini ukuthenga. Futhi akukho lutho mayelana nenkathi kwangemva kokubeletha kanye lutho: indlela ukondla ingane yakho, indlela yokukwenza, zingaki izinyanga umntwana kunesithembiso ikhanda lakhe. I okokuqala, esezele ingane kubonakala ethambile ngokukhethekile, futhi kubonakala sengathi omunye ukunyakaza sezimiso - futhi zonke. Kodwa ngokuvamile lezi kwesaba ihaba, ngoba ingane ithuthukiswe kahle ukusinda isazela. He jika ikhanda ecaleni ukuze singathwesi kuliminyanise ngesikhathi elala phansi ngesisu phansi.

Qaphela!

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekusizeni ingane yakho ukuthuthukiswa efanele - akuyona ukusheshe izinto futhi ekuqaleni abazange ucabanga bangaki izinyanga ingane iqala ukuthi uyaliphakamisa ikhanda lakhe. Lapho ngineminyaka engu-kwamasonto amabili kuya kwamathathu encane, kokuba esisogwini esiswini, kuyodingeka azame ukusebenzisa imisipha entanyeni. Futhi emva nenkathi efanayo, okungukuthi izinyanga unyaka nesigamu, ingane uzokwazi ukubheka umhlaba nge ngeqholo baphakamisé ikhanda lakhe ngeminithi. Kodwa lezi ukunyakaza namanje kuphela reflex futhi uvivinyo olunzima amandla, ayikulungele. Alamu insimbi kungenziwa waphawula ukuthi umntwana akazami ukuzakhela phakamisa ikhanda lapho elele phansi. Noma ukukhulisa, kodwa abanye eside saphela ukuyigcina. Kulokhu kungcono ujike kudokotela wezingane ezinhle ukuthokomala, ayikho nendlela ukuhlehlisa uhambo kuye.

Sonke isikhathi

Noma kunjalo, kangakanani ingane iqala uyaliphakamisa ikhanda lakhe? elithi Rough - amasonto 12 emva kokuzalwa. Ngalesi ubudala, isivele akwazi ukugcina ikhanda lakho nentamo ahambisana umzimba uma kuwukuthi ukukhulisa kancane phezu izandla. Kodwa bahlale isikhathi eside kangakanani kulesi sikhundla, ingane ngeke akwazi ngenxa yokuntuleka amandla. Futhi sizenqabe sesisu ekusebenziseni engcono yemvelo kakhulu eqinisa intamo wengane. Lokhu kumele ikhokhwe okungenani imizuzu embalwa ngosuku ke ungaqiniseka ngempela ukuthi ingane ngendlela evamile. azungeze nje engu-izinyanga ezintathu ingane iyakwazi ukukhiphela ikhanda lakho ngenkathi ezandleni abadala. Vele ungamenzi ngokweqile abashisekayo, ngoba Imisipha yentamo kukhona basebuthakathaka, futhi kubalulekile ukuba ubambe isandla sakhe.

Into esemqoka - ukuqeqeshwa

Ngemva kwamasonto 3-5, la umzimba kuyodingeka ingane yabo nokuhlala futhi wenze imizamo unamahloni ukuze ufunde mayelana nezwe ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. futhi ekugcineni abazali izinyanga ezimbili akhohlwe indlela ucabanga bangaki izinyanga umntwana kunesithembiso kwekhanda lakhe Eqinisweni,. Le ndoda kancane iqala ugqozi cabangela izinto ezibekwe izinhlangothi ezahlukene, futhi ukuxoxa ngayo yonke into ukuthi wabona ulimi yakhe elula.

Konke ngabanye kakhulu

Kufanele futhi ukuthi zonke izingane eba ngamunye, futhi ungabeki mingcele esiqinile kulokhu ayikwazi ukufakwa. Ngakho, uma abazali abasha uzocelwa ngaso obaba nomama yomngani: "Ezinyangeni eziningi kanjani ingane kunesithembiso ikhanda lakhe" - futhi bayobizwa ngokuthi neminye imibandela, asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka ngokweqile.