Izingane Kunzima kungani ziba enjalo, nokuthi ukufundisa kahle?

Isikhathi esining impela omama abasebasha bakhononda ngokuthi ayikwazi yokuthola ulimi olulodwa nengane. Kulokhu, zonke kuqhathaniswa nezinyane lembuzi ayesekhulile imvuthu osanda kuzalelwa futhi umona labo omama abangamazi ukukhathazeka nezinkinga ngokuthula ekukhuliseni izingane zabo. Nokho, ukuqhathanisa okunjalo uyisiphukuphuku, ngoba ube neminyaka ethile ubudala futhi libhekene imikhuba yabo, ngakho-ke kumelwe sifunde ukuhlukanisa umsebenzi ojwayelekile kwengane ukwakha "inkinga." Maqondana izingane Naughty ngokuvamile basebenzisa inkulumo ethi "izingane enzima". Basuke ngokuphelele hhayi zibalalele abazali bazo, ukuzimela futhi, eziyingozi, zinenkani, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi kungcono nje izingane. Nge imfundo efanele izingane kuba nzima ngisho izingane abavamile kakhulu, ethule, futhi unothando futhi inothando.

Izinkinga walolu hlobo Kuvame kakhulu abazali abasebasha namanje ukufunda ukukhulisa ingane yabo yokuqala. Iphutha kancane, futhi ingane isivele kokuqala yaziphatha ngendlela engafanele. Futhi kulesi simo singasho ukuthi ngokuyinhloko okufanele asolwe umzali, hhayi ingane. Ngaso sonke isikhathi khumbula ukuthi ubuhlobo bethu nezingane kungabangela okuhle nokubi. Kungokwemvelo ukuba pipsqueak ababeka njalo ezwa kuphela ukukhala kukanina, kuba ngokushesha noma kamuva, akanandaba ke. Ngenxa yalokho umntwana evamile ikhula wamthukuthelela wonke umuntu osemusha esikhathini esizayo kuyoba njengendlela bafundise izingane zabo. Ngakho-ke, abantwana nzima - akalutho kodwa ngenxa indlela abantu abakhuliswe ngayo engafanele kubazali.

Ebakhakhabisa ingane yakhe unina ngokuvamile bathethelele ukuziphatha kwabo ngenxa yokuthi uyesaba yini ukuhamba ukufundisa ingane ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwesaba ngempela kuyaqondakala ngoba uma ingane akezwa "cha", bese ukuyekelela, angababaza liziphathe ngokuphelele nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi ngokushesha okukhulu ukujwayela leli. Nokho, lesi simo sikabili, futhi kumelwe sifunde ukubona umugqa, lapho kungenzeka ukuba baphakamise izwi lengane, futhi lapho kungcono ake lokho akufunayo.

Ake sicabange ukuthi ingane yakho ayeke ukulalela futhi ngokwenza lokho inhliziyo yakhe ufisa. Okokuqala, kufanele siqonde ukuthi emfundweni yezingane nzima - kuwumsebenzi onzima, futhi isikhathi eside ngokwanele, ngakho-ke bekezela. Yikuphi izikhundla afaneleka kulesi simo, uchaze ngezansi.

1. Enqabela kuye hhayi konke. Flick Okufanayo nokuvinjelwa unomphela enrage kuphela ingane futhi ningathuli ngaye inkululeko. Makahambe uzama ukudweba phezu kodonga - kuyoba lula ukusula, kodwa ebona ukuthi ovunyelwe. Esikhathini esizayo, nje kudingeka bachazele izingane zabo ukuba ingane ukuthi ungasondela ephepheni bese udonga kumele ahlambuluke. Phinda lokhu izikhathi eziningana ngaphandle bamemeza, uzobona imiphumela emasontweni ambalwa.
2. Musa wamthethisa kuye ngaso sonke. Kuyinto umphumela engahlula enganeni yakho, futhi kwakha eziningi izakhiwo. Uma izinyane akwenzele okuthile ongavamile, kungcono umtshele ngobumnene ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza lokho, kunalokho wavele i unodoli uthukuthele phezu ingxenye yehora.
3. Akunakusetshenziswa musa hit ingane. Le ndlela oziphethe kabi.
4. Musa ayivikele konke. Isikhathi esining impela, unina uzama ukuvikela ingane yakhe izinkinga. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukwenza lapho ingane isencane kakhulu, kodwa okhule umntwana kudingeka wenze ezinye umbhedo futhi amaphutha. Lena ukuze uthole okuhlangenwe nakho, okuyinto nakanjani singaba usizo kabi esikhathini esizayo kuye. Ukunika umntwana esithangamini enemininingwane kusikhungo sosizo ukuze isenzo ngasinye, wena engozini ukuze ukhule ube umuntu ofuna ongakwazi ukuzenzela izinqumo.

izingane Kunzima ngokushesha okukhulu kabusha bafundile, uma kwenziwa ngendlela efanele. Ake ingane yakho inomuzwa ukukhathazeka wakho (kodwa hhayi ngokweqile), bese zonke kuyoba kahle futhi ngaphandle komzamo.